Feeling safer/less depressed in hostel than home?
ANyone understand or relate to this.I live alone so that could be an issue I suppose. I have lots of good things in my house not and lots of privacy, my gaming set up, music studio etc etc..So i have many things at my disposal. However, i find last few years very depressed and anxious in my house I guess it always lingers. I mean like most people at night you lock your doors put alarms on etc. My neighbourhood isnt bad but still you try to be safe etc. I dont fear anything specific. I guess as im home alone a lot as well Im not socialising. It feels crap a lot. But that is my situation at home for whatever reasons and will be foreseeable future.When I travel and stay in hostels obviously there is always people around, perhaps in dorm, common room, reception, bar, gardens etc...I might talk to some, I might not be talking to any, I might get on with some, others cant even speak same langauge BUT i just never feel alone or down. It's just a comfort that people are always around a safety and security and also some kind of social thing, like im not alone here, many people travellers also, if i want to chat to someone i can do it within seconds if i want to be alone i can. If i want to go to bar and have beer i can and talk to someone etc. Wouldnt go into town alone from my house for a beer alone to much hassle and odd etc..I cant explain it all in words fully but i just feel like im part of something with other people in a hostel and im not alone, safe and secure though its with strangers who could potentially steal or be bad so in effect its less safe than home.When i come home from travels and in my house alone every night it feels so quiet and scary and depressing.I wonder if i had a flat with friends if id feel differently? Perhaps I would? Probably would right?Have option to sit alone in room or socialise, so maybe it would feel the same and id be less depressed? via /r/solotravel https://ift.tt/2Ma5TdC
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